Spice up Your Sex life with Fantasy Phone Sex

Want to spice up your sex life without having to get creative and go through all the trouble of arranging a dinner or a show? Phone Sex can be the missing link to turn things up a notch or two! Plus, you can do it from the privacy of your home. Just get your favorite friend or partner to call your phone. You can even set it so that your favorite phone sex partner answers the phone…and then you can keep talking!

Here’s a neat little trick for phone sex that might surprise you. With your free cell phone or your trusty mate-to-be’s cell phone, casually dial a number and leave a message. Listen to what your partner says. If she doesn’t want to talk, that’s fine – there’s no need to force her to talk, anyway. Or, grab your favorite sexting pal to come over and join you on the fun.

If you’re shy or if you don’t feel like you have much experience in the “phone sex” realm, a fantasy might be a good way to start. Some people are afraid of having a real person to touch them in such intimate areas – especially when they’re afraid of being hurt. That’s where a fantasy comes in. Tell your partner what your fantasy is and listen to her response.

Another option for phone sex would be to make a “special phone call.” This can be accomplished with another person, but the result is always hot sex when the phone sex gets hotter. So what kind of hot sex would you like to have? An erotic long distance phone call might be just the thing to help you achieve that “special someone” fantasy.

Some people enjoy talking dirty during phone sex. In fact, it’s not uncommon for some people to read erotic fiction in order to turn their partner on. Others read naughty magazine pages and talk to their partner about feeling up their partner in such “naughty things.” That’s the great thing about erotic literature – it doesn’t say “phone sex” – it simply refers to something else!

If you want to spice up your phone sex life, talk to your partner about how she feels about having dirty talk during sex. Share fantasies with her and see where she gets the most satisfaction. Keep in mind that the “naughty things” you say to each other may not make you feel good, too. Sometimes a good time to talk about your feelings is when you’re apart from one another. The two of you might need some distance and get away from the everyday pressures and busybodies of life for a while.

It’s common and healthy for couples to let loose once in a while. This can help both partners stay more involved in the physical act, which can be a great thing. After all, sex is an exercise in staying physically and emotionally healthy. When you keep things interesting and add in some dirty talk from time to time, you’ll both feel and experience a heightened sense of satisfaction.

Phone Sex can lead both partners to open up and tell each other everything they have been longing to know about each other. If you let go and aren’t afraid to look like a dirty little vixen or a supermodel, chances are your partner will let out those fantasies and do the same. If you are afraid that your partner will think you’re not turned on if you don’t tell him about your hot date with Mr. Universe, try setting up a blind date. It sure beats trying to get him to look for you in the phone book!