How to Talk Dirty

Using the phone to get sex instead of going to a “sex shop” is certainly not new – however, using the phone instead of talking with your partner over the shoulder is. Phone sex, also referred to as “skype sex” or simply “skype sex,” is oral sex talks that take place through the use of a cell phone. This type of oral sex is much more intimate than normal intercourse because you are able to “talk” in a way that you normally wouldn’t be able to if you were face to face. In fact, this type of oral sex is comparable to being “just friends.”

If you’ve never been engaged in phone sex with your significant other, it can be a little scary at first. You don’t want to shock your lover or make him uncomfortable, so you try to stay away from the normal “porn star raves” and get back to the “regular” stuff. However, if you follow these tips, then you can have some fun while still giving your partner some great oral stimulation.

The first thing you need to do is stop texting. A lot of people think that phone sex starts with sending long, masturbatory messages to your partner, but this is simply not true. In fact, sexting is usually the first step toward having your significant other addicted to you and wanting to please you.

The next tip to use when engaging in phone sex is to get naughty with your picture. If you’re both into fantasy sports, then why not start talking about how you’d take part in some fantasy matches? Say something like you want to rub your breasts together so your man comes out with “tea party sperm”. Or if you say something like you’re an aspiring ball lady, then say something like you would slap your boyfriend’s face before you give him oral sex.

Next, you need to start looking up dirty phrases that you can say to each other to turn things on. For example, if you’re both into role-play, then you could look up phrases such as “harder” or “mouth” to describe what kind of activities you would be performing. After that, you can start looking up some words that describe what the act of sex should look like. If you look up words like “hot spot” or “cunt,” then you can start describing how your partner feels as you use those words on the phone sex.

Another great way to spice things up is to add some visual stimulation to the mix. If you feel that your partner isn’t getting sexually excited, then try incorporating some kinky talk into the mix by describing what would happen to you while you do things to each other. For example, you can say that you’re going to rub your man’s scrotum until he has an orgasm. You can also say that you’re going to grab his scrotum and twist it until he loses his erection. Whatever you do, just make sure your words and actions match so that you can have some great phone sex!

Now, Lauren says that her phone sex adventures have a bit more to do with role play than just describing what happens on the phone. She goes into great detail about the kinds of fantasies that she and her partners have. For example, some of the “more common” fantasies that she and her partners have involve domination and submission fantasies. The sex can get a little steamy at times, so you might want to make sure that you and your partner are in comfortable surroundings before you dive in to some real dirty talk. If your phone sex experience gets steamy, then that’s a sign that it will be a great night for you too, no matter what you two are in reality interested in.

All in all, Lauren says that her secret to getting some hot phone sex is to practice, and practice. As she says, the more you get comfortable with what you are doing, the better it will all become. Just like any other kind of physical intimacy, learning how to make love on the phone involves being open and talking to your partner about your desires. Only then can you truly make your dreams come true, and your intimate relationship with your man will be even hotter!